Bella Pope
Bella has written 48 articles for Romancoholic between 2017 and 2021, more than any other contributor. She covers relationships and breakups above all — the get-your-ex-back section is largely hers — along with dating and long distance. A lifestyle and marketing writer, Wisconsin native, and fantasy author-in-progress.
Articles by Bella Pope
Does No Contact Actually Work? What the Research Shows
No contact reliably helps you recover. Whether it brings an ex back is a different question, and the honest answer is more complicated than most advice admits.
4 min read
Ultimate Guide to Sex Swings
Your time in bed is awesome, yet something is missing. a sex swing is what you looking for my friend. Here's the best sex swing we found for your pleasure.
14 min read
13 Signs He Doesn’t Love You Anymore
Love is hard, realizing your love might be ending is even harder. If you think to yourself “he doesn’t love me” these signs will tell you for sure.
5 min read
39 Relationship Goals To Strive For
Relationships are tricky and when it comes to relationship goals, there are far too many unrealistic expectations out there.
9 min read
Is Flirting Cheating When You’re In A Relationship?
There’s a fine line between cheating and flirting. But is flirting cheating if you’re in a relationship and how do you know when you’ve crossed the line?
5 min read
7 Strategies For Communicating In A Relationship
You can’t deny how powerful learning how to communicate in a relationship is. The easier it is to open up, the fewer problems you’ll have with one another.
5 min read
How To Fix A Broken Relationship
Not all relationships are meant to last forever. But learning how to fix a broken relationship may save yours from falling apart for good.
5 min read
The Surprising Reality Behind On and Off Again Relationships
Pretty much everyone has been through on and off relationships. For some, it’s all they’ve known but the reality isn’t actually as sweet as it may seem.
5 min read
11 Signs You Have Fear Of Commitment
Committing to someone is a big deal. It’s why there are countless people out there with a fear of commitment. They can’t reason being with only one person.
5 min read
How To Have Anal Sex For The First Time
For more fun in the bedroom many couples want to learn how to have anal sex. But knowing how to do it the right way isn’t exactly common knowledge.
14 min read
What To Do If You Have A Crush On Your Guy Friend?
You have a crush on your guy friend? Don't let your thoughts start racing. Breathe, This is exactly what you know to see things clearly and take action.
5 min read
What Does It Mean When A Guy Comes Too Fast?
Every woman experiences this at some point. It’s inevitable, really. But when a guy comes too fast what does it mean? Here's everthing you need to know.
6 min read
7 Unique Tips For Authentic Online Dating Conversations
Online dating is tough. Without having some tips for online dating conversations, you might end up ruining something before it has the chance to be great.
5 min read
11 Online Dating Profile Examples To Attract Men
The world of online dating is flourishing. If you want to get ahead of the game, having some good online dating profile examples to attract men can help.
6 min read
How To Use A Dildo: A Beginner’s Guide
A beginner's guide to using a dildo: choosing a size, lubricant, positions that work, cleaning, and what to do if it is uncomfortable.
10 min read
How To Stop Obsessing Over A Guy In 5 Simple Steps
Five steps to stop a man occupying your thoughts all day, why the obsession usually is not about him, and how to break the loop without going no contact.
5 min read
How To Deep Throat Without Gagging
A practical guide to deep throating without gagging, including how the gag reflex works, positions that help, and why none of it is obligatory.
9 min read
The Ultimate Guide To The Eiffel Tower Sex Position
If you're really looking to spice up your sex life, sometimes you need to get someone else involved. In that case, try the Eiffel tower sex position.
6 min read
How To Get Over Being Cheated On
Having your trust betrayed is the worst feelings imaginable. You may not know how to get over being cheated on. We'll do it one step at a time. You'll heal!
5 min read
Where To Meet Men? 15 Places Every Woman Should Know About
It's hard to meet men nowadays. Plenty of dating apps but nothing like making a connection in person. Knowing where to meet men can is crucial! Learn more
5 min read
7 Reasons Why Men Lose Interest (And How To Keep His)
It's scary to to think that in a new relationship the man might lose interest. It can go both ways. Knowing why men lose interest will help you prevent it.
5 min read
Do Long Distance Relationships Work? (And How To Make Yours Work)
Do long distance relationships work out in the end? Most people think long distance relationships are doomed, but that doesn't have to be the case.
5 min read
Why Do Men Lie In Relationships (And 6 Signs He’s Lying To You)
Everybody lies. A small lie here and there isn't a huge deal, but if you think your man of lying to you, you may be wondering why do men lie. Here's why...
5 min read
Is Your Ex in a Rebound Relationship? 8 Signs to Watch Out For
Watching your ex move on sucks. But is your ex getting serious with someone new or is it just a rebound relationship? These signs will tell you for sure.
5 min read
The Single Best Way To Respond When Your Ex Texts You
When it happens, it can be good or downright awful. But knowing how to respond when your ex texts you is extremely important. Read this, Take control.
5 min read
Text Your Ex Back: 13 Texts to Get Him Back
After splitting up with there's a lingering feeling of wanting to get back together. Want to give it another shot? text something that'll get his attention
5 min read
11 Open Relationship Rules Every Woman Should Know
Mongomy is not for everyone. Thinking about an open relationship? To help things run smoothly, check out these rules for a healthy open relationship
5 min read
The No Contact Rule: What It Is Actually For
No contact is sold as a way to make him come back. It works far better as a way to get your own head straight. How long, what counts, and when to break it.
5 min read
Is it Normal to Still Love My Ex? Answer These 11 Questions and Find Out
Breakups are tough for everyone. It happens. If you ask yourself 'is it normal to still love my ex?' It's important that you read this. I got your back.
5 min read
9 Long Distance Sex Tips: How to Keep Your Relationship Hot and Sexy
Just because you’re in a LDR doesn’t mean you can’t be having sex. Sex is important in long distance relationships, maybe even more so than normal ones.
5 min read
Is He Cheating? 9 Signs That Reveal His Infidelity
One of the worst things to face is cheating. But, Is he really cheating on you? Here are some signs to help you know better before jumping to conclusions.
5 min read
How To Tell If A Guy Is Flirting With You? 7 Signs To Watch Out For
When meeting guys, nothing is more frustrating than not being able to tell if he’s into you. This is how you tell if a guy is flirting with you. 100%
5 min read
How to Start a Conversation With a Guy in 5 Easy Steps
Let’s be real. You want to find that special guy and fall madly in love. However, first you have to figure out how to start a conversation with a guy.
5 min read
How to Make a Man Fall in Love With You
Here it is. The question many women want to know and have no idea where to start. Here are some powerful tips on how to make a man fall in love with you.
5 min read
How To Give A Blowjob: The Ultimate Guide
When it comes to pleasing your man and keeping him satisfied, blowjob is a must. This is how you give a blowjob that will keep him begging for more.
10 min read
How To Get Back With Ex Boyfriend In 7 Easy Steps
If you’ve made the decision to see how to get back with ex, it’s time to put a plan in place to actually win him over, and I'm here to help.
5 min read
How To Understand Men: The Survival Guide
Men say we're hard to understand. true. But men are just WEIRD! They operate very differently. Good thing we made this manual. Learn how to understand men.
5 min read
9 Kinky Sex Ideas to Try Out With Your Man
It’s not easy coming up with kinky ideas when you’re inexperienced in the art of frisky business. But you're looking for them! And I'm here to help.
5 min read
17 Sexual Tension Signs From A Man To Look Out For
The best way to gauge a man’s interest is by reading the sexual tension signals he’s putting out. We cover everything you need to look out for here.
10 min read
101 Sexting Messages To Send To Your Boyfriend
Long distance? Feeling horny? Wanna turn your guy on just because you can? Don't be a boring sexter. We got your back with heavy ammunition right here.
17 min read
Should You Get Back With Your Ex? Answer These 9 Questions First
Should I get back with him? Maybe it's worth saving, could be rose-colored glasses. End any uncertainty by answering these and know for sure!
7 min read
60+ Best First Date Ideas That Will Lead To A Perfect Relationship
Do you want to make this new guy like you? Want more than dinner and a movie? We got THE BEST first date ideas for days! and a 2nd and a 3rd date ;)
19 min read
How To Give A Handjob: The Definitive Guide
Handjobs are underrated because their usually not done well. If you really want to learn how to give a handjob, This is everything you'll need.
24 min read
50 Marriage Quotes Every Wife Should Know
Marriage is never easy; it can't all be smooth sailing. Changing your perspective can help a lot! We've got 50 great marriage quotes to get you started.
15 min read
19 Signs Your Ex Desperately Wants You Back
Relationships end for many reasons, It's not always clear if he still wants you. If you think he is, these signs will give you a clear answer.
7 min read
What Does Prolonged Eye Contact Mean From A Man To A Woman?
Being able to read a man is extremely important, but not as easy as it sounds. What does it mean when a man can't get his eyes off you. And what to do!
9 min read
44 Sexy Games For Couples To Try Out
Don't let things get boring. Sexy games for couples bring the heat. Know your partner better and get freaky doing it. It's our Top sexy games for couples.
16 min read
Things To Talk About With Your Boyfriend
The honeymoon phase wears off but you still want to know more so let us give you some tips on things to talk about with your boyfriend.
14 min read
17 Best Songs To Survive A Long Distance Relationship
Dating someone while living far away is HARD, Take it from someone who knows. Thankfully, these long-distance relationship songs can make it a bit easier.
7 min read