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First Date Questions That Are Not Small Talk

Questions that tell you something real about a person on a first date, why the standard ones fail, and the research on what actually builds closeness quickly.

5 min read
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Red Flags in Online Dating, From Mild to Get Out Now

Which online dating warning signs are worth acting on, which are noise, and the specific patterns that signal a romance scam rather than a bad date.

5 min read
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Situationship vs Relationship: Where the Line Actually Falls

The difference is not how serious it feels or how much time you spend together. It is whether anyone has agreed to anything. Here is how to tell which you are in.

4 min read
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What Is a Situationship? How to Tell If You Are In One

A situationship is a romantic relationship nobody has defined. What it actually means, how to tell if you are in one, and the question that ends the ambiguity.

6 min read
Woman looking at her phone Online Dating

Breadcrumbing: What It Is and Why It Works On You

Breadcrumbing is just enough contact to keep you interested and never enough to go anywhere. How to spot it, why it is so effective, and what to do.

5 min read
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How to End a Situationship

Ending something that was never defined is harder than a breakup, because there is nothing to point at. What to say, when to say it, and why it hurts as much as it does.

5 min read
Woman and man talking closely Dating

Love Bombing: The Signs, and How It Differs From Real Intensity

Love bombing looks exactly like being adored, which is why it works. The signs, what separates it from a genuinely intense start, and what to do.

5 min read
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Situationship vs Friends With Benefits: The Actual Difference

Both are undefined and both involve sex. The difference is what you each want from it, and that difference decides which one hurts.

4 min read
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Modern Dating Challenges for Women in the Digital Age: Navigating Love in a World of Apps

Apps, endless options, and the sense that nobody commits. What has genuinely changed about dating, what has not, and how to date well anyway.

5 min read
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7 Things You Need To Discuss Before Living Together

If you reached the point of considering moving together, Congratulations. But, before you dive right in, make sure to check the 7 points we have for you.

6 min read
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How to Protect Yourself from Serial Cheaters on Dating Sites

Dating online is very popular nowadays, Unfortunately, serial cheaters are hiding among us. Here's how to make sure you spot them before they get to you.

4 min read
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It’s Not the Wrong Time, it’s the Wrong Person

Ever tell yourself he was 'the right person at the wrong time'? He wasn't, and If keep believing that you risk serious damage in future relationships.

4 min read
Relax Woman jumping sea on the beach Dating

All You Need To Know About Feminine Energy in Dating

What exactly is Feminine Energy? How can you use it in your dating? We covered all you need to know about feminine energy and how to use it wisely.

6 min read
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How To Create The Best Romantic Atmosphere At Home

Wether it's the world going mad that's keeping you in or you're just having a fun intimate night at home – This is how you create the most romantic atmosphere

2 min read
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10 Things To NOT Feel Guilty About During a Breakup

Breakups are the worst. We might feel like breaking up was wrong, you start feeling really bad for all kinds of reasons. DON'T. this is why...

5 min read
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7 Signs You Are Ready To Start Dating Again

You wonder if you can ever date again? Are you scared you will be ready? Here are 7 signs to know you are ready to start dating again. Number 7 is the key

5 min read
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How To Handle Being In Love With A Married Man

It seems like being in love with a married man can make your life hell sometimes. But what is it about them that pulls us to them?

5 min read
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How to Tell the Size of a Guy’s Package (And Why Most Signs Don’t Work)

Hands, feet, height, nose — none of them predict it, and the research says so. What the myths get wrong, and why it matters less than you think.

7 min read
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How To Kiss A Guy: 19 Kissing Techniques To Make Him Fall In Love

When I was in my early teens, the most important question always occupying my thoughts was how to kiss a guy. You probably know what I'm talking about.

10 min read
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35 And Single? Stop Freaking Out And Do This

Single at 35 and everyone else is paired off? Why the timeline you are measuring yourself against is wrong, and what to do with the decade in front of you.

4 min read
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19 Online Dating Pros And Cons You Need To Be Aware Of

Watching for red flags when dating is important, watching for them when online dating is a MUST. You need to be aware of all the pros and cons!

7 min read
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How To Flirt With A Guy: 19 Rules You Must Know

Nineteen rules for flirting with a man you actually like, including why you go awkward around him and how to read whether it is landing.

11 min read
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15 Unusual Online Dating Questions to Ask Before Meeting A Guy

Online dating can be a hassle. but, we shouldn't be ignoring it, It's important to ask questions before meeting. Here are 15 Unusual questions to help you.

5 min read
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Men Love Humor: Funny Questions to Ask A Guy & Warm His Heart!

You spend hours getting ready for the date: make-up, hair, your outfit, choosing shoes, but did you ever consider the importance of funny questions?

3 min read
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11 Texts To Make him Think About You

Never underestimate the power of a good text. Especially if it makes him think of you. A simple text can make someone feel on top of the world, The right text.

5 min read
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What To Do If You Have A Crush On Your Guy Friend?

You have a crush on your guy friend? Don't let your thoughts start racing. Breathe, This is exactly what you know to see things clearly and take action.

5 min read
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7 Unique Tips For Authentic Online Dating Conversations

Online dating is tough. Without having some tips for online dating conversations, you might end up ruining something before it has the chance to be great.

5 min read
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11 Online Dating Profile Examples To Attract Men

The world of online dating is flourishing. If you want to get ahead of the game, having some good online dating profile examples to attract men can help.

6 min read
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Can You Fall In Love With Someone You Are Not Physically Attracted To?

Naturally, we feel that falling in love means you're attracted to someone. But can you fall in love with someone you are not physically attracted to?

5 min read
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How Do I Know If He Likes Me Or Just Wants To Sleep With Me?

The difference shows up in what he does between dates, not in bed. Signs he wants a relationship, signs he wants one thing, and how to ask outright.

5 min read
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How To Stop Obsessing Over A Guy In 5 Simple Steps

Five steps to stop a man occupying your thoughts all day, why the obsession usually is not about him, and how to break the loop without going no contact.

5 min read
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50+ Unique Second Date Ideas That Every Woman Should Know About

More than fifty second date ideas that give you something to talk about, plus what a second date should actually tell you about him.

12 min read
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Where To Meet Men? 15 Places Every Woman Should Know About

It's hard to meet men nowadays. Plenty of dating apps but nothing like making a connection in person. Knowing where to meet men can is crucial! Learn more

5 min read
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How Long To Wait Between Dates? The Answer Will Surprise You

Ever dated someone whom you liked so much? Should you play hard to get? Here are five important pointers to help you make the best decision.

4 min read
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How Many Dates Before Sex? All You Need to Know

Truly? It all comes down to how well you know yourself. This is better than following a cheat sheet on how many dates before sex you should go on.

5 min read
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9 Fun Games To Play Over Text With A Guy

Texting is a huge part of our lives, It has a lot of potential. Here are some fun games to play over text and have a blast while you're bored at work. haha

5 min read
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How To Tell If A Guy Is Flirting With You? 7 Signs To Watch Out For

When meeting guys, nothing is more frustrating than not being able to tell if he’s into you. This is how you tell if a guy is flirting with you. 100%

5 min read
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How to Start a Conversation With a Guy in 5 Easy Steps

Let’s be real. You want to find that special guy and fall madly in love. However, first you have to figure out how to start a conversation with a guy.

5 min read
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Friends With Benefits Rules You Must Know

Nothing is wrong with having friends with benefits, Just make sure you know the friends with benefits rules.

5 min read
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8 Rules To Remember When Dating Older Men

Since high school, older boys seem more mature, confident, and less..lost? But dating older men is not a walk in the park, you need to know what you're doing

5 min read
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Should I Text Him Quiz: 5 Questions To Help You Decide

We've all been there. it can cause a lot of anxiety. But the answer to the should I text him dilemma lies in asking yourself a few simple questions.

6 min read
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17 Sexual Tension Signs From A Man To Look Out For

The best way to gauge a man’s interest is by reading the sexual tension signals he’s putting out. We cover everything you need to look out for here.

10 min read
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How To Be Single After A Long Relationship

Sadly, couples who were together for a short time have it easier. But we'll show you how to be single after a long relationship, it'll only hurt a bit.

5 min read
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60+ Best First Date Ideas That Will Lead To A Perfect Relationship

Do you want to make this new guy like you? Want more than dinner and a movie? We got THE BEST first date ideas for days! and a 2nd and a 3rd date ;)

19 min read
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How To Be Irresistible To Men

Good looks appeal to all men but there are more important things men look for in a women. These tips will help you become irresistble to men.

4 min read
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What Does Prolonged Eye Contact Mean From A Man To A Woman?

Being able to read a man is extremely important, but not as easy as it sounds. What does it mean when a man can't get his eyes off you. And what to do!

9 min read
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Why Is He Ignoring My Texts All Of A Sudden?

It seems that when you first get to know someone you’re able to talk or text for hours on end. But sometimes that suddenly stops. What went wrong?

5 min read
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The Foolproof Guide To Make Him Want You

So you’ve met this new guy. You start chatting, you got all these butterflies in your stomach, you know he does too. How do you take it a step further?

5 min read
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How To Find A Good Man

There are good guys out there. If you can’t find a good man, maybe you're not doing something right. Don’t worry, The answer is here and I'm here to help.

7 min read
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How To Flirt With A Guy Over Text

Keep your man focused on you when you're not around. We show you how to flirt with a guy over text with these simple but effective 10 steps.

10 min read
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7 Great Ways To Get A Guy To Like You

He’s attractive, funny, smart... the works. You don’t want this one slip away. Men like this are hard to find. How do you get him to like you? Right here!

4 min read
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How To Keep A Conversation Going With A Guy

How to keep a conversation going with a guy? Is it something you need to prepare for? Is it up to him? Don't worry, Here are some useful tips.

5 min read
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11 Traits Men Find Attractive In Women

Ladies, I’m about to share with you some life changing tips. It's everything you need to know about what men find attractive in a women. Written by a man.

4 min read
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Should You Stop Texting Him To Get His Attention?

You send him a message but a few moments later you get that sinking feeling. A repeat of last time? Should you stop texting him to get his attention?

4 min read
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7 Surprising Turn Offs For Guys You Want To Avoid

Let’s be honest, dating is hard. It's even harder when you don't know turn offs for guys. Luckily we have you covered. read on to find out the big ones.

4 min read
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Questions to Ask Your Partner That Are Worth Asking

Not 200 questions. About 40 that actually tell you something, sorted by how well you know him, plus the research on why taking turns matters more than the questions.

5 min read

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