Relationships
What happens after the beginning — how men behave, what conflict means, and when to stay or go.
Sections
Understanding Men
Why he does that, what it usually means, and what actually changes it.
Get Your Ex Back
Breakups, no contact, and an honest read on whether reconciliation is the right aim.
Long Distance
Keeping a relationship real across distance, and knowing when it has stopped being one.
Female-Led
What an FLR actually is, the degrees it comes in, and how couples agree the terms — without the caricature.
All relationships guides
Does No Contact Actually Work? What the Research Shows
No contact reliably helps you recover. Whether it brings an ex back is a different question, and the honest answer is more complicated than most advice admits.
4 min read
Female-Led Relationship Stories: What They Look Like In Practice
What female-led relationships actually look like day to day, drawn from published accounts and research, and the patterns that separate the ones that work.
6 min read
Female-Led Relationship Contract: A Template You Can Actually Use
A plain-language FLR agreement template, section by section, with the clauses that matter and the ones to leave out. Free to copy and adapt.
5 min read
Female-Led Relationship Rules Couples Actually Set
The rules real FLR couples agree on: money, housework, decisions, sex and how disputes get settled, plus the ones that quietly cause problems.
5 min read
What a Female-Led Relationship Actually Is
A female-led relationship means the woman holds final say by agreement, not by accident. What it looks like day to day, and how to tell if it suits you.
6 min read
Green Flags in a Relationship: What Good Actually Looks Like
We are all fluent in red flags and much worse at naming the good signs. Fourteen green flags that genuinely predict a relationship worth staying in.
5 min read
120 Conversation Starters for Couples Who've Run Out of Things to Say
Questions that actually open a conversation instead of closing it — organised by depth, for new couples, long-term partners and long-distance relationships.
7 min read
How to Bring Up Sex Toys With Your Partner Without It Getting Awkward
How to raise the idea of using sex toys together, what to do if your partner feels threatened, and how to choose something you'll both actually enjoy.
5 min read
How to Keep Intimacy Alive in a Long-Distance Relationship
Keeping emotional and physical closeness across distance: routines that work, the check-in trap, and what actually helps between visits.
5 min read
Mismatched Libido: What to Do When You Want Sex More Than Your Partner
Desire differences are normal and workable. How responsive desire works, why initiating turns into a cycle, and what actually helps when libidos don't match.
6 min read
Why Men Pull Away in Relationships (And What Actually Helps)
The real reasons men withdraw — stress, pace, avoidant attachment, and genuine loss of interest — plus how to tell which one you're dealing with and what to do.
6 min read
Navigating the Storm: Conflict in Relationships
Conflict is not the problem; how you handle it is. Common causes of arguments, the patterns that predict a breakup, and how to repair afterwards.
2 min read
Codependency with an ex-boyfriend. Top 10 tips for recovery
Feeling stuck and emotionally prisoned. You also might find yourself always thinking, calling, texting your ex. Here are 10 codependency recovery tips.
5 min read
How To Avoid Jealousy and Feelings of Resentment in Your Relationship
Jealousy and resentment rarely start with the other person. Where they come from, how to raise them before they harden, and what to do when they already have.
5 min read
Types of Intimacy and How They Help & Hurt Relationships
So what is Intimacy? How can they help us? Can they hurt us? Here are the types of intimacy out there and how they affect our daily life in a relationship.
3 min read
A Toxic Relationship and How I Was Strong Enough To Leave
Many years into a relationship doesn't always promise it's good. Leaving a toxic relationship is crucial for your future. Here is my story of how I did.
4 min read
15 Subtle Signs a Male Co-worker Likes You
Does he like you or is he just friendly? Office romance can be very exciting and turn into something beautiful. But first, You need to know what's going on!
8 min read
8 Types Of Men You Should Avoid Dating
You want to conquer the world with a good man by your side, Yet, how do you tell which type of men you should avoid dating to save the time and stress?
6 min read
6 Simple Ways To Recognize A Toxic Relationship
Having bad time with your partner? Do you feel some toxicity in your relationship? Here are 6 signs of a toxic relationship. Number 6 is the answer...
6 min read
Does he like you or is he lonely? 8 Sure ways to tell
Ever asked yourself does he like me or just feeling lonely? some companionships are being disguised as relationships. Here are 8 ways to tell if he is.
5 min read
5 Reasons To Why Guys Dump Girls They Dig
Does it seems like you really hit it off but then things just hit a wall and he doesn't look interested? Here are 5 reasons why guys dump girls they dig.
6 min read
Why Are Relationships So Hard?
Why Are Relationships So Hard? They take work and you're both doing your best... So why does it feel like it? These facts will help you clear things up.
6 min read
What Makes a Man Stay in a Relationship
You probably asked yourself, what makes a man stay in a relationship? How to keep him around? Don't worry, Check out some real life tips to keep him around.
7 min read
The Four Levels of a Female-Led Relationship
FLRs run from a woman having more say to her holding authority across the whole relationship. The four levels explained, with what each looks like day to day.
5 min read
Do we have a future together? 11 ways to find out.
You have been dating for a while, and now you wonder if there is a future with him? Here are 11 different ways to know if you have a future together.
6 min read
Here Is What To Do After A Break Up
You see his face everywhere. The breakup happened a while ago, but you can't get over him. Just how on earth are you to know what to do after a break up?
5 min read
How to Save Your Relationship If You’re Not Attracted To Your Boyfriend
One of the scariest moments in a relationship is waking up one day and realizing – I'm not attracted to my boyfriend anymore.
5 min read
How to Let Go Of Someone You Love
Your world is crumbling around you. Now is the time to understand how to let go of someone you love. Because he's gone, and he's not coming back.
5 min read
7 Rebound Relationship Stages To Be Aware Of
Ending a long relationship is never easy and we all have different coping mechanisms. One of these is going through a number of rebound relationship stages.
5 min read
13 Signs He Doesn’t Love You Anymore
Love is hard, realizing your love might be ending is even harder. If you think to yourself “he doesn’t love me” these signs will tell you for sure.
5 min read
39 Relationship Goals To Strive For
Relationships are tricky and when it comes to relationship goals, there are far too many unrealistic expectations out there.
9 min read
Is Flirting Cheating When You’re In A Relationship?
There’s a fine line between cheating and flirting. But is flirting cheating if you’re in a relationship and how do you know when you’ve crossed the line?
5 min read
7 Strategies For Communicating In A Relationship
You can’t deny how powerful learning how to communicate in a relationship is. The easier it is to open up, the fewer problems you’ll have with one another.
5 min read
How To Fix A Broken Relationship
Not all relationships are meant to last forever. But learning how to fix a broken relationship may save yours from falling apart for good.
5 min read
The Surprising Reality Behind On and Off Again Relationships
Pretty much everyone has been through on and off relationships. For some, it’s all they’ve known but the reality isn’t actually as sweet as it may seem.
5 min read
How To Make Him Miss You More Than Ever Before
Keeping a man's attention seems so hard, let alone learning how to make him miss you. Somehow, he's forgotten you but you can't stop thinking about him.
4 min read
19 Different Ways To Say I Love You To Your Boyfriend
You're sure your boyfriend knows you love him? Gifts and kisses aside, actions speak louder than words. This is how you'll make him feel TRULY loved.
5 min read
How To Overcome Your Abandonment Issues
We all want safety and security. Unfortunately our abandonment issues can get in the way of this. We want to be loved just as much as we love.
5 min read
What To Get Your Boyfriend For His Birthday?
Are you struggling to figure out what to get your boyfriend for his birthday? Here are some great ideas on how to make him feel special.
5 min read
11 Signs You Have Fear Of Commitment
Committing to someone is a big deal. It’s why there are countless people out there with a fear of commitment. They can’t reason being with only one person.
5 min read
7 Unusual Signs That Show He’s The One (#3 Will Surprise You!)
Seven signs that tell you more than chemistry does, including the unglamorous ones that predict a lasting relationship better than any grand gesture.
5 min read
My Boyfriend Still Talks To His Ex Should I Be Worried?
When contact with an ex is harmless and when it is not. The questions worth asking, and how to raise it without sounding like you are policing him.
5 min read
Why Has My Boyfriend Stopped Sleeping With Me?
A drop in his libido is usually not about you. The common causes, how to tell them apart, and how to raise it without making it worse.
5 min read
Is Having Sex With Your Ex Boyfriend Is A Good Idea?
Sleeping with your ex is not automatically a mistake, but it is rarely neutral. When it helps, when it keeps you stuck, and how to tell which you are doing.
4 min read
Why Rebound Relationships Fail Almost Every Time
Why most rebounds end quickly, what they are actually useful for, and how to tell whether you are in one.
5 min read
How To Deal With Long Distance Relationships Fights
Long distance relationship fights seem to be all too common. They can really jeopardize your relationship. Here's how to make sure that doesn't happen.
5 min read
Should You Move In With Your Boyfriend? Answer These 7 Questions First
Seven questions to answer honestly before you move in together, covering money, space, expectations, and what happens if it does not work.
5 min read
How Many Dates Before A Relationship? Here’s What You Need To Know
There is no correct number, but there is a useful range. What most couples do, what the conversation sounds like, and when waiting starts working against you.
4 min read
Why Is He Acting Distant All Of A Sudden?
Why men pull away without warning, what it usually means, and what to do in the first two weeks that does not push him further out.
5 min read
You Found Something On His Phone. Now What?
You're sitting on the couch, his phone in your hand. You're thinking, "wouldn't it be weird if I went through my boyfriends phone and found something?"
6 min read
Do Your Boyfriend And You Have Nothing To Talk About?
I was talking to one of my friends the other day when she suddenly told me that my boyfriend and I have nothing to talk about. Here's how to fix that problem.
6 min read
He Needs Space But Keeps Texting You? Do This
When a guy asks for space, it happens when things are going well, right? So, what to do when my boyfriend says he needs space but keeps texting me?
6 min read
What Does It Mean When A Guy Comes Too Fast?
Every woman experiences this at some point. It’s inevitable, really. But when a guy comes too fast what does it mean? Here's everthing you need to know.
6 min read
7 Weird Places Where Guys Like To Be Touched While Kissing
When you're kissing with your man, don't you sometimes struggle about where to put your hands? I mean, where do guys like to be touched while kissing?
4 min read
Why Do Men Give Silent Treatment After A Break Up?
Why men go silent after a breakup, what the silence usually means, and whether reaching out will help or set you back.
5 min read
27 Valentine’s Day Gifts To Get Your Boyfriend
Getting Valentine's gifts for him always turns into a challenge. But it doesn't have to be that way. Here are 27 ideas to make Valentine's day special.
5 min read
How Often Should You Talk In A Long Distance Relationship?
More contact is not better contact. How often couples in long-distance relationships actually talk, and why a daily check-in can do more harm than good.
4 min read
11 Long Distance Relationship Statistics You NEED To Know About
I've got 11 long distance relationship statistics that will brighten up your day if you're in an LDR and maybe even change your mind about getting into one.
5 min read
Why Do Men Cheat? The Shocking Truth About Their Infidelity
We're dealing with an age-old topic here today. Just why do men cheat? The answer might not be what you'd expect it to be.
8 min read
How To Get Over Being Cheated On
Having your trust betrayed is the worst feelings imaginable. You may not know how to get over being cheated on. We'll do it one step at a time. You'll heal!
5 min read
Male Psychology 101: How To Make Him Chase You Again
Find yourself stalking an ex-flame of yours? first out of curiosity, then out of a strange longing... This is the 'how to make him chase you again psychology'
5 min read
How To Keep A Man Happy And In Love With You
When the honeymoon period of a relationship is over, we know that there's an adjustment period for both partners. Know how to keep a man invested in you.
5 min read
7 Reasons Why Men Lose Interest (And How To Keep His)
It's scary to to think that in a new relationship the man might lose interest. It can go both ways. Knowing why men lose interest will help you prevent it.
5 min read
You Cheated On Your Boyfriend. Now What?
The unspeakable has happened: you've just realized, "I cheated on my boyfriend." Don't just freak out. Learn what you need to do to make things right!
9 min read
Do Long Distance Relationships Work? (And How To Make Yours Work)
Do long distance relationships work out in the end? Most people think long distance relationships are doomed, but that doesn't have to be the case.
5 min read
Why Do Men Watch Porn: The Real Truth
Why men watch porn, what it usually means about your relationship (often nothing), and when it is genuinely worth being concerned about.
12 min read
How To Apologize To Your Boyfriend When You’re Wrong
Yes, no matter how petty yyou've been, own up to what you did. want to say sorry? this is how to apologize to your boyfriend when you're wrong.
5 min read
Why Do Men Lie In Relationships (And 6 Signs He’s Lying To You)
Everybody lies. A small lie here and there isn't a huge deal, but if you think your man of lying to you, you may be wondering why do men lie. Here's why...
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Is Your Ex in a Rebound Relationship? 8 Signs to Watch Out For
Watching your ex move on sucks. But is your ex getting serious with someone new or is it just a rebound relationship? These signs will tell you for sure.
5 min read
11 Things To Remember When You Miss Your Boyfriend
There are days when you miss your boyfriend so much that it hurts, sometimes physically. Don't let that stew, show your man you're thinking about him!
5 min read
The Single Best Way To Respond When Your Ex Texts You
When it happens, it can be good or downright awful. But knowing how to respond when your ex texts you is extremely important. Read this, Take control.
5 min read
How To Get Over Heartbreak: 7 Things To Help You Move On
Seven things that genuinely help after a breakup, what the timeline usually looks like, and why the advice to stay busy often backfires.
5 min read
Text Your Ex Back: 13 Texts to Get Him Back
After splitting up with there's a lingering feeling of wanting to get back together. Want to give it another shot? text something that'll get his attention
5 min read
The 7 Best Long Distance Relationship Gifts For Him
Just because you're apart doesn't mean the long distance relationship gifts you get your man can't be original and loving.
5 min read
11 Open Relationship Rules Every Woman Should Know
Mongomy is not for everyone. Thinking about an open relationship? To help things run smoothly, check out these rules for a healthy open relationship
5 min read
The No Contact Rule: What It Is Actually For
No contact is sold as a way to make him come back. It works far better as a way to get your own head straight. How long, what counts, and when to break it.
5 min read
Am I in Love: 7 Questions to Answer
It's hard to figure out your feelings. You might spend hours wondering: Am I in love? Luckily, I've created this short quiz that'll help you find out.
5 min read
Is it Normal to Still Love My Ex? Answer These 11 Questions and Find Out
Breakups are tough for everyone. It happens. If you ask yourself 'is it normal to still love my ex?' It's important that you read this. I got your back.
5 min read
9 Long Distance Sex Tips: How to Keep Your Relationship Hot and Sexy
Just because you’re in a LDR doesn’t mean you can’t be having sex. Sex is important in long distance relationships, maybe even more so than normal ones.
5 min read
How To Get Over Your Ex-Boyfriend When You Still Love Him
It's a tough time, there's no way around it. The love and time spent together, all of a sudden it’s gone. But life goes on, It does get better. I'll show you.
5 min read
Here’s Exactly How To Behave After Sleeping With A Guy
In a man’s bed, you naturally follow his lead, in your own bed, you become the alpha female. Keep the power, know how to behave after sleeping with a guy?
4 min read
7 Ways To Respect Your Husband
Us women, we sometimes nag, criticize, and belittle our husbands. Don't let this turn into disrespect. Here is how to respect your husband in 7 unique ways.
5 min read
Is He Cheating? 9 Signs That Reveal His Infidelity
One of the worst things to face is cheating. But, Is he really cheating on you? Here are some signs to help you know better before jumping to conclusions.
5 min read
Is Watching Porn Cheating? Here’s The Truth
Is watching porn cheating? The answer is NO. Here is why exactly it's not cheating and how to work with it and turn it into a boost in your relationship.
4 min read
How to Make a Man Fall in Love With You
Here it is. The question many women want to know and have no idea where to start. Here are some powerful tips on how to make a man fall in love with you.
5 min read
Does He Still Love Me Quiz: Answer These 5 Questions And Find Out
We've all had that question floating in our head at one point or another: does he still love me? These 5 questions will give you the answer.
5 min read
13 Long Distance Relationship Quotes To Remember
Feeling lonely? Do you miss him badly but he is too far? Here are 13 Long Distance Relationship quotes and tips to remember when emotions get to you.
6 min read
Here’s What Men Want In Bed (But Will Never Tell You)
I've researched the opinions of countless men. I promised anonymity so they'd let me share with you what men want in bed, but will never tell you.
5 min read
How To Get Back With Ex Boyfriend In 7 Easy Steps
If you’ve made the decision to see how to get back with ex, it’s time to put a plan in place to actually win him over, and I'm here to help.
5 min read
How To Understand Men: The Survival Guide
Men say we're hard to understand. true. But men are just WEIRD! They operate very differently. Good thing we made this manual. Learn how to understand men.
5 min read
16 Long Distance Relationship Ideas To Keep Your Relationship Exciting
Long-distance sucks. Fortunately, I got my best 16 best ideas to make your long-distance relationship a lot more exciting. It'll make it a bit easier.
5 min read
The Single Most Powerful Way To Make Him Feel Like A Man
ALL men need to feel masculine. It's one of the biggest ways to keep your man happy & satisfied. Sadly, few women know how to make him feel like a man.
4 min read
How To Take Sexy Pictures To Send Your Boyfriend
Sexy selfies are a great way to drive your boyfriend hot and wild. We will show you how to take sexy pictures and how to take sexy selfies.
7 min read
How To Be More Feminine In 7 Easy Steps
Men gravitate to women who are feminine. It's biological, Learning how to be more feminine is not difficult, it can transform your dating life.
5 min read
Should You Get Back With Your Ex? Answer These 9 Questions First
Should I get back with him? Maybe it's worth saving, could be rose-colored glasses. End any uncertainty by answering these and know for sure!
7 min read
He Broke Up With Me Will He Come Back? Here’s The Truth
You want to win him back but don’t know how to without looking desperate? Do you wonder why you broke up? It's very possible, we got the answers.
5 min read
How To Make A Guy Realize He’s Losing You
You NEED to show him that if he keeps neglecting you, you’ll walk out of his life. These 8 are the best clear ways to make a guy realize he’s losing you.
5 min read
11 Proven Ways To Get Him To Commit
Commitment can be tricky and scary, No wonder even grown men are afraid of it. But seriously, how do you get him to commit to your relationship?
5 min read
How To Get Your Ex Back After He Moved On?
Being in love with an ex can be a heart wrenching, But not a lost cause. I'm here to help you learn how to get your ex crawling back after he "moved on".
10 min read
7 Problems That Can Quickly End Your Long Distance Relationship
Relationships are already hard work without being long distance. Here's how you deal with some of the more common long distance relationship problems.
5 min read
19 Signs Your Ex Desperately Wants You Back
Relationships end for many reasons, It's not always clear if he still wants you. If you think he is, these signs will give you a clear answer.
7 min read
11 Little Known Ways To Make Your Ex Jealous
Whether you’re in need of getting your ex back or you simply want to show him what he’s missing out on, you'll need to learn how to make your ex jealous.
5 min read
The REAL Reason why Men Love Anal Sex
What is it about anal sex that has men bending over backwards to get and so eager to try? Maybe it’s time to ask yourself - Why do men like anal sex?
5 min read
How To Tell If A Guy Likes You: 99 Signs That Reveal His Feelings
So there's a guy you like and you're dying to know if he feels the same way. this in-depth article we explain EVERYTHING on how to tell if a guy likes you.
21 min read
Things To Talk About With Your Boyfriend
The honeymoon phase wears off but you still want to know more so let us give you some tips on things to talk about with your boyfriend.
14 min read
What Does It Mean When A Guy Says He Misses You?
There’s nothing more comforting than being missed by someone you care about, right? But what does it actually mean when a guy says he misses you?
4 min read
Unusual But Achievable Ways To Make Your Man Want You More
Can you make your man want you even more? As women, we want to feel a burning urge coming from him that he simply can’t control. We can crank the heat.
4 min read
12 Tips For Women Who Want To Find True Love
Isn't happiness the ultimate goal in life? We all try to spend our days doing what truly matters to us. But how do focus on finding true love?
5 min read
9 Surefire Ways To Keep Your Man Happy And Satisfied
You love your man and you want to make him happy. Wanna give your man a little extra lovin'? here are 9 ways to keep your man happy and satisfied ;)
5 min read
17 Best Songs To Survive A Long Distance Relationship
Dating someone while living far away is HARD, Take it from someone who knows. Thankfully, these long-distance relationship songs can make it a bit easier.
7 min read 5 Stages Of A Relationship: Which One Are You In?
There are five big stages of a relationship. Each one has it's opportunities and challenges. Which one are you in? Read on to find out.
6 min read
5 Unique Ways To Get A Guy To Notice You
Always wondered how to get a guy to notice you? It's cool, we got you covered with 5 awesome ways to get any guy's attention. Check out number 4.
5 min read
Does Absence Make The Heart Grow Fonder?
Does absence really make the heart grow fonder? This is an age old question, and I'll do my best to answer it in this article. Learn more here.
4 min read
How To Keep A Guy Interested After Sleeping With Him
So you’ve slept together. and it was good, but you’re starting to worry. Relax, here is how to keep a guy interested after sleeping with him.
9 min read
How To Make A Player Fall In Love With You
It's only natural to fall in love with a player. But how do you really get a player to fall for you? Click here to discover our top tips.
10 min read
How To Make Him Obsessed With You
It's tough even getting a man's attention, even tougher learning how to make him obsessed with you. Luckily I've got you covered.
4 min read
29 Signs He Wants To Commit But Is Scared
There could many reasons to why men fear commitment. We listed for you 29 sure signs he wants to commit but is scared of it. Number 20 will surprise you.
9 min read
What Makes A Man Emotionally Attached To A Woman?
So what makes a man emotionally attached to a woman? More than you'd guess. we covered 10 unique ways to get any man attached to a woman.
9 min read
What Makes A Man Fall In Love? 7 Proven Strategies To Use
Wouldn't it be awesome if you had a key to every man's heart? Well, I've got something better. Here's exactly what makes a man fall in love.
7 min read
4 Things Men REALLY Want In A Relationship But Will Never Tell You
What men want in a relationship? That's a good question - and here are 4 answers that you need to hear, but most men will never tell you.
5 min readIn this section
- Understanding Men — Why he does that, what it usually means, and what actually changes it.
- Get Your Ex Back — Breakups, no contact, and an honest read on whether reconciliation is the right aim.
- Long Distance — Keeping a relationship real across distance, and knowing when it has stopped being one.
- Female-Led Relationships — What an FLR actually is, the degrees it comes in, and how couples agree the terms — without the caricature.