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Lovense Lush vs Ferri: Which Wearable Actually Suits You

One is internal, one is clitoral, and that is the whole decision. How the Lush and Ferri differ in practice, and why the answer depends on your anatomy rather than the specs.

4 min read
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Satisfyer vs Womanizer: The Difference Is Real, and Smaller Than the Price Gap

Both use air pulses rather than vibration. How the two mechanisms actually differ, what the patent fight established, and which is worth the money for whom.

5 min read
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Body-Safe Sex Toy Materials: What's Safe, What Isn't, and How to Tell

Which sex toy materials are body-safe, which are porous, and how to spot the marketing language that hides cheap plastics.

5 min read
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Couples' Sex Toys: A Practical Guide to Shopping Together

Which types of sex toys actually work for couples, what to buy first, and how to choose something you'll both use rather than something that ends up in a drawer.

5 min read
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How to Choose Your First Vibrator: A Complete Beginner's Guide

A judgement-free guide to buying your first vibrator: the four main types, which materials are safe, what to spend, and the usual first-time mistakes.

6 min read
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How to Clean and Store Sex Toys Properly

How to clean sex toys by material, when soap and water is enough, when to sterilise, and how to store toys so they last. A straightforward hygiene guide.

4 min read
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How to Tell Your Partner What You Want in Bed

How to ask for what you want without hurting your partner's feelings — when to have the conversation, the wording that works, and what to do if it goes badly.

6 min read
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Rumble vs Buzz: Why the Strongest Vibrator Isn't Always the Best One

Vibration quality matters more than raw power. Rumbly and buzzy motors explained, and how to judge a toy's power before you buy it.

5 min read
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Sex Toy Lubricant Guide: Water, Silicone and Oil-Based Compared

Which lubricant works with which toy material, why silicone lube can ruin a silicone toy, and how to choose between water-based, silicone and oil-based lubes.

5 min read
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Ultimate Guide to Sex Swings

Your time in bed is awesome, yet something is missing. a sex swing is what you looking for my friend. Here's the best sex swing we found for your pleasure.

14 min read
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Is The Domi 2 The Best Remote Controlled Wand?

Want to know how good the Domi 2 controlled wand from Lovense? You've arrived at the right place. Here is all you need to know about their vibrator.

9 min read
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5 Best Double Dildos and everything to know about them

Whether your pushing the boundaries of your solo adventure or exploring new pleasures with a partner... These are the best double dildos to get you into it!

9 min read
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10 Reasons Pleasuring Yourself Will Improve Your Sex Life

Masturbation is a fun and normal act used by the majority of us. Despite all myths, Here are 10 reasons why masturbating will improve your sex life.

5 min read
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Best Sex Pillows And How To Use Them

Always wondered what is a sex pillow? What are the benefits of it? Here is all you need to know about them and how to pick the best sex pillow for you.

6 min read
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Best Suction Cup Dildo: Top 6 Choices

Nowadays, dildo choices are virtually limitless. And in this article, I want to discuss one of the kinkiest dildo options out there. The suction cup dildo.

11 min read
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Njoy Pure Wand Review: Is It The Best Steel Dildo?

Are the rumors really true? Is this dildo the best thing since slided bread? You’ll find out all about it in this Njoy Pure Wand review.

8 min read
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Best Anal Dildos: Top 10 Reviewed

Anal stimulation can be one of the best experiences you can have. But to achieve that, you need to find the best anal dildo today. That's where I come in.

16 min read
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I Tested The Best Glass Dildos – Here Are The Results

Gorgeous, affordable, and rigid, they are perfect for both experts and beginners alike. But finding the best glass dildo can be tricky.

10 min read
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OhMiBod Esca 2: My Honest Review

But is Esca 2 worth it? Does it have the power, the versatility, and the options you need? You’ll find that out and more in this honest OhMiBod review.

8 min read
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We Vibe Tango Review

Rumors you heard were true. Tango has it all - power, durability, versatility. And I’m going to tell you all about it in this We Vibe Tango review.

8 min read
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The 7 Best Bullet Vibrators You Can Buy Today

Now, there can only be one best bullet vibrator. In this article, I will list my #1 choice and several runner-ups. Let's dive in.

12 min read
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What Is The Best Egg Vibrator? 9 Best Love Eggs Reviewed

Choosing the best egg vibrator is tough. There are hundreds of them out there, each one of them unique in some way. I did the research so you don't have to.

15 min read
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We Vibe Sync Review: Read This Before You Buy

There’s something so naughty about being surrounded by people who have no idea you’re being stimulated right there. That’s where We Vibe Sync shines.

9 min read
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What Is The Best Vibrator For Squirting?

If you have trouble squirting during sex, you might want to try using a vibrator. Here's a list of the best vibrators for squirting available today.

12 min read
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Lelo Mona 2 Review

Are you looking for a powerful, but sexy G-spot vibrator? You'll want to check out this one. Find out if Lelo Mona 2 is right for you in this honest review.

8 min read
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17 Most Powerful Vibrators You Can Buy Today

So you want power. You want the sheer, raw force you can only get with the most powerful vibrator today. I'm here to help.

24 min read
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Best Thrusting Vibrator: Top 7 Reviewed

If you find normal vibrators boring and old-fashioned, you might fall in love with thrusting vibrators. Let's find out what are the best ones, shall we?

10 min read
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7 Best Rabbit Vibrators Every Women Needs To Own

Rabbit vibrators have significantly exploded in popularity and are now a staple item most women couldn’t live without. We chose the best ones for you.

13 min read
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7 Best Wand Vibrators Reviewed

Invented in 1980s, it is still one of the most powerful vibrators on the market. Now, let’s find out what is the best wand vibrator on the market today.

10 min read
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7 Best Clitoral Vibrators For Women You Need To Own

No matter how good sex might get, we need someone or something to stimulate our clit in order to come. That’s where the best clitoral vibrator comes in.

11 min read
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Best G Spot Vibrators: Top 6 Reviewed

Sometimes just using your hands isn’t enough. Sometimes you need a little help. That's why we covered the best g spot vibrator options for your pleasure.

9 min read
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What Is The Best Remote Control Vibrator?

Remote vibrators are amazing. You can enjoy hours of discreet public play with your partner, surrounded by people who haven’t got any idea what's going on.

10 min read
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How To Have Phone Sex: 13 Hot Tips

Do you ever get turned on just by his voice? Now, if you know how to have phone sex, you can always be close to your man.

5 min read
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7 Dirty Things To Say To Your Boyfriend

Sex is mainly a physical experience, but it actually begins in our mind. You’ll know this if you already know some dirty things to say to your boyfriend.

5 min read
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9 Tips For Having Sex For The First Time With Someone Experienced

Having sex for the first time with someone experienced can be very scary. You can already see countless scenarios where everything could go wrong.

5 min read
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How To Have Anal Sex For The First Time

For more fun in the bedroom many couples want to learn how to have anal sex. But knowing how to do it the right way isn’t exactly common knowledge.

14 min read
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Sex Toy Buying Guide for Women – How to Pick The Right One for You

How to pick a sex toy that suits you: the main types, which materials are safe, what to spend, and how to shop without being overwhelmed.

5 min read
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How To Perform The Full Nelson Sex Position

Tired of the same vanilla sex positions? Ready to level up? It's your lucky day, I'm here to show you the absolute gem of a sex position. Get freaky!

6 min read
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How To Use A Dildo: A Beginner’s Guide

A beginner's guide to using a dildo: choosing a size, lubricant, positions that work, cleaning, and what to do if it is uncomfortable.

10 min read
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Amazon Sex Position: A Secret To Amazing Sex

The Amazon sex position is a girl-on-top position but with a little twist and little more complex. This amazon sex position isnt easy!

7 min read
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How To Deep Throat Without Gagging

A practical guide to deep throating without gagging, including how the gag reflex works, positions that help, and why none of it is obligatory.

9 min read
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The Ultimate Guide To The Eiffel Tower Sex Position

If you're really looking to spice up your sex life, sometimes you need to get someone else involved. In that case, try the Eiffel tower sex position.

6 min read
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19 Common Sex Fantasies Your Boyfriend Likely Has

We all have sexual fantasies, perfectly normal. But we tend to hide them for some reason, men especially. These are your boyfriend's fantasies, act on them.

9 min read
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How To Ride A Man Without Getting Tired

Sex is physically engaging. You need to put in the effort the same as he does. So, how to ride a man properly? Here is what you should and shouldn't do.

5 min read
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How To Give A Blowjob: The Ultimate Guide

When it comes to pleasing your man and keeping him satisfied, blowjob is a must. This is how you give a blowjob that will keep him begging for more.

10 min read
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BDSM For Beginners: 7 Tips To Get You Started

Wanna try BDSM? Fealing freaky? We do too! We got you the best BDSM sex tips for beginners to get you started. From the biggest experts out there.

5 min read
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9 Kinky Sex Ideas to Try Out With Your Man

It’s not easy coming up with kinky ideas when you’re inexperienced in the art of frisky business. But you're looking for them! And I'm here to help.

5 min read
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11 Sex Games To Play With Your Boyfriend

Find yourself stuck in a sex rut? Wanna turn on the HEAT in your sex life? These sex games for you and your man are just what you need. Get freaky!

5 min read
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101 Sexting Messages To Send To Your Boyfriend

Long distance? Feeling horny? Wanna turn your guy on just because you can? Don't be a boring sexter. We got your back with heavy ammunition right here.

17 min read
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How To Have Sex In Public And Not Get Caught

Sex in public places is turning you on? Wanna take your man right there in the dressing room? Here's how NOT get caught in a kinky public quickie.

5 min read
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How To Please Your Man In Bed: A Step By Step Guide

Want to feel sure of your skills in the sack? Looking for ways to bring your man to new levels of pleasure? We got you the BEST tips on the internet.

5 min read
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Should You Spit Or Swallow? Here’s the Real Truth

Do you spit or swallow? A burning question for both sexes. You don't have to answer now, we cover every reason so you can pick what works for you!

4 min read
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How To Give A Handjob: The Definitive Guide

Handjobs are underrated because their usually not done well. If you really want to learn how to give a handjob, This is everything you'll need.

24 min read
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What Does It Feel Like To Have A Guy Come Inside of You?

So you’ve been with your boyfriend for a few weeks now and you’ve had sex already. But you wonder what does it feel like to have him come inside you?

8 min read
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11 Fun New Things To Try In Bed With Your Man

Routine is boring, the bedroom is no exception. Don't worry! We've got you covered with 11 hot and sexy new things to try in bed. Get kinky, Have Fun!

5 min read
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How To Have Skype Sex: The Definitive Guide

Sexting is getting hot while you're away from your partner? Sometimes you'll have to use Skype. Knowing how to have Skype sex can make all the difference.

5 min read
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How To Swallow Cum In 7 Easy Steps

Let’s face it: Most of our partners fantasize about finishing in our mouths, Learn how to swallow cum and fulfill his fantasy.

8 min read
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A Good Girl’s Guide To Initiating Sex

Every good girl has a few tricks up her sleeve for figuring out how to initiate sex. We've got great tips for you to take back the power in your bedroom.

5 min read
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101 Best Places To Have Sex Before You Die

Let's be honest. Most bucket lists are boring. Improve your list by adding some of these best places to have sex. Here are 101 great ideas.

21 min read
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How To Turn A Guy On

Guys are simple, But how to turn a guy on in a way he won't be able to resist you? We have the perfect strategy for you to turn any guy on.

5 min read
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9 Sex Tips For Women That Really Work

It’s not easy to get it right each and every time. But luckily I’m here to help with some great sex tips for women that actually work. Especially number 8

5 min read
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Sex With Food: 7 Foods To Spice Up Your Sex Life

Sex is great. Sex with food is even better. Read on to find out how to spice up your sex life by adding these foods to your bedroom.

5 min read
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The Easiest Way To Get Him In The Mood

It can be hard competing with all the things distracting your man: Video games. Porn. TV. With all this, So how to get him in the mood? Read more...

5 min read
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How To Spice Things Up In The Bedroom: 8 Things To Try Out Tonight

Is your sex life lacking excitement? Read on to learn how to spice things up in the bedroom. (Number 7 is my personal favorite)

5 min read
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5 Naughty Sex Moves To Surprise Your Man

Having the same sex with your man over and over? We covered 5 unique sex moves to surprise your man and leave him surprised and begging for more.

5 min read

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