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Maine Bel

38 articles

Maine has written 36 articles for Romancoholic between 2017 and 2021, and is the site's most prolific writer on marriage — preparing for it, staying in it, and repairing it after a bad year. She also covers relationships and dating. Full-time mother, long-distance runner, and a reliable source of unsentimental advice.

Articles by Maine Bel

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Emotional Intimacy Exercises That Are Not Awkward

Practical exercises for rebuilding closeness with a partner, what the research behind them actually shows, and how to start without a cringe conversation.

5 min read
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Marriage Counseling Questions: What They Ask and Why

The questions a marriage counselor actually asks, what each one is looking for, and how to use them at home if therapy is not an option yet.

5 min read
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How to Protect Yourself from Serial Cheaters on Dating Sites

Dating online is very popular nowadays, Unfortunately, serial cheaters are hiding among us. Here's how to make sure you spot them before they get to you.

4 min read
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7 Weird Places Where Guys Like To Be Touched While Kissing

When you're kissing with your man, don't you sometimes struggle about where to put your hands? I mean, where do guys like to be touched while kissing?

4 min read
Woman catching man looking on screen Marriage

Your Husband Looks At Other Females On Facebook? Now What?

Your husvand is looking at other females on facebook? OK, Don't freak out, it doesn't have to mean anything bad! Here's what you need to do.

4 min read
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How Often Should You Talk In A Long Distance Relationship?

More contact is not better contact. How often couples in long-distance relationships actually talk, and why a daily check-in can do more harm than good.

4 min read
romantic couple in a restaurant Dating

How Do I Know If He Likes Me Or Just Wants To Sleep With Me?

The difference shows up in what he does between dates, not in bed. Signs he wants a relationship, signs he wants one thing, and how to ask outright.

5 min read
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How To Talk Dirty To Your Husband The Right Way

You should learn how to talk dirty to your husband. Your man, believe it or not, will be thrilled to hear some naughty, sexy words coming from your mouth.

5 min read
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How To Apologize To Your Boyfriend When You’re Wrong

Yes, no matter how petty yyou've been, own up to what you did. want to say sorry? this is how to apologize to your boyfriend when you're wrong.

5 min read
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How Often Do Couples Have Sex? What the Data Says

Around once a week on average, and falling. What the survey data shows by age, why the average is a bad target, and when frequency is genuinely worth worrying about.

5 min read
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How Long To Date Before Marriage?

What does it take to make a marriage work? If you're wondering how long to date before marriage, the answer is here. Spoilers: it's not what you'd expect!

4 min read
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How Long To Wait Between Dates? The Answer Will Surprise You

Ever dated someone whom you liked so much? Should you play hard to get? Here are five important pointers to help you make the best decision.

4 min read
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How Important Is Sex In A Marriage?

Sex is not the whole of a marriage, but it is rarely just one part either. What the research says, and what a genuine mismatch in desire actually means.

4 min read
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Does He Still Love Me Quiz: Answer These 5 Questions And Find Out

We've all had that question floating in our head at one point or another: does he still love me? These 5 questions will give you the answer.

5 min read
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9 Serious Questions To Ask Your Husband

Many marital issues can be avoided by being able to discuss anything naturally. Here are some questions to ask your husband to explore deeper.

4 min read
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What To Do When Your Husband Doesn’t Respect You

Respect is one of the key factors for a successful marriage. But what do I do when my husband doesn't respect me? Here is how to know and what to do.

5 min read
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6 Smart Strategies For Dating After Divorce

Let’s face it, Breaking up a marriage can be traumatic. I'm here to show you that the best things are just around the corner, starting with dating after divorce

6 min read
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BDSM For Beginners: 7 Tips To Get You Started

Wanna try BDSM? Fealing freaky? We do too! We got you the best BDSM sex tips for beginners to get you started. From the biggest experts out there.

5 min read
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The Single Most Powerful Way To Make Him Feel Like A Man

ALL men need to feel masculine. It's one of the biggest ways to keep your man happy & satisfied. Sadly, few women know how to make him feel like a man.

4 min read
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The 7 Most Effective Ways To Prepare For A Marriage

Prepare for marriage?! where? how? You can and should, preparing for marriage is critical! Check out our top 7 ways to make sure you're ready("er").

5 min read
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How To Take Sexy Pictures To Send Your Boyfriend

Sexy selfies are a great way to drive your boyfriend hot and wild. We will show you how to take sexy pictures and how to take sexy selfies.

7 min read
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How Do You Know When Your Marriage Is Over?

Knowing you’ve reached the point of no return in your marriage isn’t easy, But it iss important to know it has. How do you know when your marriage is over?

7 min read
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How To Be More Feminine In 7 Easy Steps

Men gravitate to women who are feminine. It's biological, Learning how to be more feminine is not difficult, it can transform your dating life.

5 min read
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How Long Does The Average Marriage Last? The Numbers Are Not Good

We hear a lot about how half of marriages end in divorce. But do you know how long does the average marriage lasts? Know how to win your own relationship!

5 min read
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How To Have Sex In Public And Not Get Caught

Sex in public places is turning you on? Wanna take your man right there in the dressing room? Here's how NOT get caught in a kinky public quickie.

5 min read
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How To Please Your Man In Bed: A Step By Step Guide

Want to feel sure of your skills in the sack? Looking for ways to bring your man to new levels of pleasure? We got you the BEST tips on the internet.

5 min read
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Should You Spit Or Swallow? Here’s the Real Truth

Do you spit or swallow? A burning question for both sexes. You don't have to answer now, we cover every reason so you can pick what works for you!

4 min read
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How To Be Irresistible To Men

Good looks appeal to all men but there are more important things men look for in a women. These tips will help you become irresistble to men.

4 min read
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11 Proven Ways To Get Him To Commit

Commitment can be tricky and scary, No wonder even grown men are afraid of it. But seriously, how do you get him to commit to your relationship?

5 min read
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What Does It Feel Like To Have A Guy Come Inside of You?

So you’ve been with your boyfriend for a few weeks now and you’ve had sex already. But you wonder what does it feel like to have him come inside you?

8 min read
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7 Problems That Can Quickly End Your Long Distance Relationship

Relationships are already hard work without being long distance. Here's how you deal with some of the more common long distance relationship problems.

5 min read
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7 Easy Ways To Seduce Your Husband Daily

Wanting to seduce your husband is GREAT but It can be hard to know where to start. Luckily we've got 7 tips to show you how to seduce your husband daily!

5 min read
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How To Have Skype Sex: The Definitive Guide

Sexting is getting hot while you're away from your partner? Sometimes you'll have to use Skype. Knowing how to have Skype sex can make all the difference.

5 min read
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How To Tell If A Guy Likes You: 99 Signs That Reveal His Feelings

So there's a guy you like and you're dying to know if he feels the same way. this in-depth article we explain EVERYTHING on how to tell if a guy likes you.

21 min read
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How To Swallow Cum In 7 Easy Steps

Let’s face it: Most of our partners fantasize about finishing in our mouths, Learn how to swallow cum and fulfill his fantasy.

8 min read
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12 Tips For Women Who Want To Find True Love

Isn't happiness the ultimate goal in life? We all try to spend our days doing what truly matters to us. But how do focus on finding true love?

5 min read
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10 Dreadful Signs Your Husband Is Cheating On You

Being cheated on by your man totally sucks. The good news is that with these tips you can easily spot red flags that suggest your husband is cheating.

5 min read
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The Foolproof Guide To Make Him Want You

So you’ve met this new guy. You start chatting, you got all these butterflies in your stomach, you know he does too. How do you take it a step further?

5 min read