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Zenka Hattingh

13 articles

Zenka wrote 13 articles for Romancoholic between 2017 and 2020, across relationships, marriage and sex — including what to do when a husband pulls away, and how to keep wanting each other. She grew up in a small coastal town and writes with a novelist's eye for what people actually do rather than what they say.

Articles by Zenka Hattingh

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7 Signs You Are Ready To Start Dating Again

You wonder if you can ever date again? Are you scared you will be ready? Here are 7 signs to know you are ready to start dating again. Number 7 is the key

5 min read
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Why My Husband Shouts At me?

Did you wonder why is your husband shouts at you? We covered all the important things to know why is your husband shouting at you and how to deal with it.

5 min read
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How To Get Your Ex Back After He Moved On?

Being in love with an ex can be a heart wrenching, But not a lost cause. I'm here to help you learn how to get your ex crawling back after he "moved on".

10 min read
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What To Do When Your Husband Doesn’t Want You?

Saying "I do" means a lifelong promise of being there when things get tough, but what do you do when you feel like your husband doesn’t want you anymore?

7 min read
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11 Fun New Things To Try In Bed With Your Man

Routine is boring, the bedroom is no exception. Don't worry! We've got you covered with 11 hot and sexy new things to try in bed. Get kinky, Have Fun!

5 min read
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11 Little Known Ways To Make Your Ex Jealous

Whether you’re in need of getting your ex back or you simply want to show him what he’s missing out on, you'll need to learn how to make your ex jealous.

5 min read
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The REAL Reason why Men Love Anal Sex

What is it about anal sex that has men bending over backwards to get and so eager to try? Maybe it’s time to ask yourself - Why do men like anal sex?

5 min read
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What Does It Mean When A Guy Says He Misses You?

There’s nothing more comforting than being missed by someone you care about, right? But what does it actually mean when a guy says he misses you?

4 min read
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Unusual But Achievable Ways To Make Your Man Want You More

Can you make your man want you even more? As women, we want to feel a burning urge coming from him that he simply can’t control. We can crank the heat.

4 min read
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A Good Girl’s Guide To Initiating Sex

Every good girl has a few tricks up her sleeve for figuring out how to initiate sex. We've got great tips for you to take back the power in your bedroom.

5 min read
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When Your Husband Looks At Another Woman What Is He Thinking?

When your husband looks at another woman, what is he thinking? How bad is it? Before you feel angry or sad, learn about what these looks really mean.

4 min read
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9 Surefire Ways To Keep Your Man Happy And Satisfied

You love your man and you want to make him happy. Wanna give your man a little extra lovin'? here are 9 ways to keep your man happy and satisfied ;)

5 min read
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Why Is He Ignoring My Texts All Of A Sudden?

It seems that when you first get to know someone you’re able to talk or text for hours on end. But sometimes that suddenly stops. What went wrong?

5 min read