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Zoe Lynn

46 articles

Zoe has written 40 articles for Romancoholic between 2017 and 2021, mostly on relationships and dating: reading a man's signals, deciding whether to text him, and keeping things interesting once the beginning is over. She writes about the ordinary, unglamorous parts of a relationship rather than the fairy tale.

Articles by Zoe Lynn

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Situationship vs Relationship: Where the Line Actually Falls

The difference is not how serious it feels or how much time you spend together. It is whether anyone has agreed to anything. Here is how to tell which you are in.

4 min read
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What Is a Situationship? How to Tell If You Are In One

A situationship is a romantic relationship nobody has defined. What it actually means, how to tell if you are in one, and the question that ends the ambiguity.

6 min read
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Breadcrumbing: What It Is and Why It Works On You

Breadcrumbing is just enough contact to keep you interested and never enough to go anywhere. How to spot it, why it is so effective, and what to do.

5 min read
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Green Flags in a Relationship: What Good Actually Looks Like

We are all fluent in red flags and much worse at naming the good signs. Fourteen green flags that genuinely predict a relationship worth staying in.

5 min read
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How to End a Situationship

Ending something that was never defined is harder than a breakup, because there is nothing to point at. What to say, when to say it, and why it hurts as much as it does.

5 min read
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Situationship vs Friends With Benefits: The Actual Difference

Both are undefined and both involve sex. The difference is what you each want from it, and that difference decides which one hurts.

4 min read
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The Ultimate Bucket List Challenge for the Adventurous Couple

This is the best list on the internet for bucket list ideas for couples. Hands down. Pick the ones you like and you're guaranteed the best memories ever!

16 min read
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The Four Levels of a Female-Led Relationship

FLRs run from a woman having more say to her holding authority across the whole relationship. The four levels explained, with what each looks like day to day.

5 min read
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Do we have a future together? 11 ways to find out.

You have been dating for a while, and now you wonder if there is a future with him? Here are 11 different ways to know if you have a future together.

6 min read
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How To Have Phone Sex: 13 Hot Tips

Do you ever get turned on just by his voice? Now, if you know how to have phone sex, you can always be close to your man.

5 min read
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Here Is What To Do After A Break Up

You see his face everywhere. The breakup happened a while ago, but you can't get over him. Just how on earth are you to know what to do after a break up?

5 min read
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How to Let Go Of Someone You Love

Your world is crumbling around you. Now is the time to understand how to let go of someone you love. Because he's gone, and he's not coming back.

5 min read
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How To Handle Being In Love With A Married Man

It seems like being in love with a married man can make your life hell sometimes. But what is it about them that pulls us to them?

5 min read
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How to Tell the Size of a Guy’s Package (And Why Most Signs Don’t Work)

Hands, feet, height, nose — none of them predict it, and the research says so. What the myths get wrong, and why it matters less than you think.

7 min read
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How To Make Him Miss You More Than Ever Before

Keeping a man's attention seems so hard, let alone learning how to make him miss you. Somehow, he's forgotten you but you can't stop thinking about him.

4 min read
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19 Different Ways To Say I Love You To Your Boyfriend

You're sure your boyfriend knows you love him? Gifts and kisses aside, actions speak louder than words. This is how you'll make him feel TRULY loved.

5 min read
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How To Overcome Your Abandonment Issues

We all want safety and security. Unfortunately our abandonment issues can get in the way of this. We want to be loved just as much as we love.

5 min read
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Why Has My Boyfriend Stopped Sleeping With Me?

A drop in his libido is usually not about you. The common causes, how to tell them apart, and how to raise it without making it worse.

5 min read
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Why Rebound Relationships Fail Almost Every Time

Why most rebounds end quickly, what they are actually useful for, and how to tell whether you are in one.

5 min read
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Should You Move In With Your Boyfriend? Answer These 7 Questions First

Seven questions to answer honestly before you move in together, covering money, space, expectations, and what happens if it does not work.

5 min read
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15 Unusual Online Dating Questions to Ask Before Meeting A Guy

Online dating can be a hassle. but, we shouldn't be ignoring it, It's important to ask questions before meeting. Here are 15 Unusual questions to help you.

5 min read
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You Found Something On His Phone. Now What?

You're sitting on the couch, his phone in your hand. You're thinking, "wouldn't it be weird if I went through my boyfriends phone and found something?"

6 min read
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He Needs Space But Keeps Texting You? Do This

When a guy asks for space, it happens when things are going well, right? So, what to do when my boyfriend says he needs space but keeps texting me?

6 min read
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Can You Fall In Love With Someone You Are Not Physically Attracted To?

Naturally, we feel that falling in love means you're attracted to someone. But can you fall in love with someone you are not physically attracted to?

5 min read
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How To Perform The Full Nelson Sex Position

Tired of the same vanilla sex positions? Ready to level up? It's your lucky day, I'm here to show you the absolute gem of a sex position. Get freaky!

6 min read
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29 Best Birthday Ideas For Your Husband

Men usually consider birthdays to be overrated. But their just shy bears. We got the best birthdays ideas for ALL husbands. from "nothing" to Everything.

5 min read
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Why Do Men Cheat? The Shocking Truth About Their Infidelity

We're dealing with an age-old topic here today. Just why do men cheat? The answer might not be what you'd expect it to be.

8 min read
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Why Do Men Watch Porn: The Real Truth

Why men watch porn, what it usually means about your relationship (often nothing), and when it is genuinely worth being concerned about.

12 min read
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19 Common Sex Fantasies Your Boyfriend Likely Has

We all have sexual fantasies, perfectly normal. But we tend to hide them for some reason, men especially. These are your boyfriend's fantasies, act on them.

9 min read
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How To Get Over Heartbreak: 7 Things To Help You Move On

Seven things that genuinely help after a breakup, what the timeline usually looks like, and why the advice to stay busy often backfires.

5 min read
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12 Steps To Reconnect With Your Husband

Being married for a while? you start to feel like strangers.. your relationship grows colder. Learn how to reconnect with your husband, get back on track!

5 min read
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The 7 Best Long Distance Relationship Gifts For Him

Just because you're apart doesn't mean the long distance relationship gifts you get your man can't be original and loving.

5 min read
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Am I in Love: 7 Questions to Answer

It's hard to figure out your feelings. You might spend hours wondering: Am I in love? Luckily, I've created this short quiz that'll help you find out.

5 min read
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How To Get Over Your Ex-Boyfriend When You Still Love Him

It's a tough time, there's no way around it. The love and time spent together, all of a sudden it’s gone. But life goes on, It does get better. I'll show you.

5 min read
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Here’s Exactly How To Behave After Sleeping With A Guy

In a man’s bed, you naturally follow his lead, in your own bed, you become the alpha female. Keep the power, know how to behave after sleeping with a guy?

4 min read
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How Many Dates Before Sex? All You Need to Know

Truly? It all comes down to how well you know yourself. This is better than following a cheat sheet on how many dates before sex you should go on.

5 min read
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How To Ride A Man Without Getting Tired

Sex is physically engaging. You need to put in the effort the same as he does. So, how to ride a man properly? Here is what you should and shouldn't do.

5 min read
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Is Watching Porn Cheating? Here’s The Truth

Is watching porn cheating? The answer is NO. Here is why exactly it's not cheating and how to work with it and turn it into a boost in your relationship.

4 min read
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9 Fun Games To Play Over Text With A Guy

Texting is a huge part of our lives, It has a lot of potential. Here are some fun games to play over text and have a blast while you're bored at work. haha

5 min read
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Friends With Benefits Rules You Must Know

Nothing is wrong with having friends with benefits, Just make sure you know the friends with benefits rules.

5 min read
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8 Rules To Remember When Dating Older Men

Since high school, older boys seem more mature, confident, and less..lost? But dating older men is not a walk in the park, you need to know what you're doing

5 min read
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Here’s What Men Want In Bed (But Will Never Tell You)

I've researched the opinions of countless men. I promised anonymity so they'd let me share with you what men want in bed, but will never tell you.

5 min read
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Should I Text Him Quiz: 5 Questions To Help You Decide

We've all been there. it can cause a lot of anxiety. But the answer to the should I text him dilemma lies in asking yourself a few simple questions.

6 min read
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16 Long Distance Relationship Ideas To Keep Your Relationship Exciting

Long-distance sucks. Fortunately, I got my best 16 best ideas to make your long-distance relationship a lot more exciting. It'll make it a bit easier.

5 min read
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11 Sex Games To Play With Your Boyfriend

Find yourself stuck in a sex rut? Wanna turn on the HEAT in your sex life? These sex games for you and your man are just what you need. Get freaky!

5 min read
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How To Be Single After A Long Relationship

Sadly, couples who were together for a short time have it easier. But we'll show you how to be single after a long relationship, it'll only hurt a bit.

5 min read