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Mike Morgan

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Editor in Chief at Romancoholic and a relationship and sex coach. Mike has written 35 articles here since the site launched in 2017, mostly on how men behave in relationships and on sex and intimacy, and is the author of Dirty Talking Secrets. He edits every piece the site publishes and is responsible for its editorial standards.

Articles by Mike Morgan

Woman and her husband doing laundry together Female-Led Relationships

Female-Led Relationship Stories: What They Look Like In Practice

What female-led relationships actually look like day to day, drawn from published accounts and research, and the patterns that separate the ones that work.

6 min read
Woman in a flight captain's hat looking directly at the camera Female-Led Relationships

Female-Led Relationship Contract: A Template You Can Actually Use

A plain-language FLR agreement template, section by section, with the clauses that matter and the ones to leave out. Free to copy and adapt.

5 min read
Man washing dishes at the kitchen sink while his partner photographs him Female-Led Relationships

Female-Led Relationship Rules Couples Actually Set

The rules real FLR couples agree on: money, housework, decisions, sex and how disputes get settled, plus the ones that quietly cause problems.

5 min read
Couple holding hands on a city high-rise, looking out at the skyline Female-Led Relationships

What a Female-Led Relationship Actually Is

A female-led relationship means the woman holds final say by agreement, not by accident. What it looks like day to day, and how to tell if it suits you.

6 min read
Woman and man talking closely Dating

Love Bombing: The Signs, and How It Differs From Real Intensity

Love bombing looks exactly like being adored, which is why it works. The signs, what separates it from a genuinely intense start, and what to do.

5 min read
stack of blank note cards tied with twine Relationships

120 Conversation Starters for Couples Who've Run Out of Things to Say

Questions that actually open a conversation instead of closing it — organised by depth, for new couples, long-term partners and long-distance relationships.

7 min read
two chairs facing each other by a sunlit window Relationships

How to Bring Up Sex Toys With Your Partner Without It Getting Awkward

How to raise the idea of using sex toys together, what to do if your partner feels threatened, and how to choose something you'll both actually enjoy.

5 min read
soft rumpled linen bedsheets in morning light Sex

How to Tell Your Partner What You Want in Bed

How to ask for what you want without hurting your partner's feelings — when to have the conversation, the wording that works, and what to do if it goes badly.

6 min read
two phones glowing at opposite ends of a wooden table at dusk Long Distance

How to Keep Intimacy Alive in a Long-Distance Relationship

Keeping emotional and physical closeness across distance: routines that work, the check-in trap, and what actually helps between visits.

5 min read
two hourglasses with uneven sand levels side by side Relationships

Mismatched Libido: What to Do When You Want Sex More Than Your Partner

Desire differences are normal and workable. How responsive desire works, why initiating turns into a cycle, and what actually helps when libidos don't match.

6 min read
silhouette of a person walking away at golden hour Understanding Men

Why Men Pull Away in Relationships (And What Actually Helps)

The real reasons men withdraw — stress, pace, avoidant attachment, and genuine loss of interest — plus how to tell which one you're dealing with and what to do.

6 min read
sad woman with her ex boyfriend and his girlfriend behind her Get Your Ex Back

Codependency with an ex-boyfriend. Top 10 tips for recovery

Feeling stuck and emotionally prisoned. You also might find yourself always thinking, calling, texting your ex. Here are 10 codependency recovery tips.

5 min read
picture split in 2 Get Your Ex Back

He Broke Up With Me Will He Come Back? Here’s The Truth

You want to win him back but don’t know how to without looking desperate? Do you wonder why you broke up? It's very possible, we got the answers.

5 min read
woman touches her man's hair Dating

How To Find A Good Man

There are good guys out there. If you can’t find a good man, maybe you're not doing something right. Don’t worry, The answer is here and I'm here to help.

7 min read
girl texting and flirting with a guy Dating

How To Flirt With A Guy Over Text

Keep your man focused on you when you're not around. We show you how to flirt with a guy over text with these simple but effective 10 steps.

10 min read
kitchen best places to have sex Sex

101 Best Places To Have Sex Before You Die

Let's be honest. Most bucket lists are boring. Improve your list by adding some of these best places to have sex. Here are 101 great ideas.

21 min read
how to get a guy to like you Dating

7 Great Ways To Get A Guy To Like You

He’s attractive, funny, smart... the works. You don’t want this one slip away. Men like this are hard to find. How do you get him to like you? Right here!

4 min read
how to turn a guy on Sex

How To Turn A Guy On

Guys are simple, But how to turn a guy on in a way he won't be able to resist you? We have the perfect strategy for you to turn any guy on.

5 min read
sex tips for women Sex

9 Sex Tips For Women That Really Work

It’s not easy to get it right each and every time. But luckily I’m here to help with some great sex tips for women that actually work. Especially number 8

5 min read
sex with food - woman eating chocolate Sex

Sex With Food: 7 Foods To Spice Up Your Sex Life

Sex is great. Sex with food is even better. Read on to find out how to spice up your sex life by adding these foods to your bedroom.

5 min read
stages of a relationship happy couple Relationships

5 Stages Of A Relationship: Which One Are You In?

There are five big stages of a relationship. Each one has it's opportunities and challenges. Which one are you in? Read on to find out.

6 min read
how to get a guy to notice you Understanding Men

5 Unique Ways To Get A Guy To Notice You

Always wondered how to get a guy to notice you? It's cool, we got you covered with 5 awesome ways to get any guy's attention. Check out number 4.

5 min read
how to keep a conversation going with a guy Dating

How To Keep A Conversation Going With A Guy

How to keep a conversation going with a guy? Is it something you need to prepare for? Is it up to him? Don't worry, Here are some useful tips.

5 min read
what do men find attractive in women Dating

11 Traits Men Find Attractive In Women

Ladies, I’m about to share with you some life changing tips. It's everything you need to know about what men find attractive in a women. Written by a man.

4 min read
how to get him in the mood Sex

The Easiest Way To Get Him In The Mood

It can be hard competing with all the things distracting your man: Video games. Porn. TV. With all this, So how to get him in the mood? Read more...

5 min read
how to spice things up in the bedroom Sex

How To Spice Things Up In The Bedroom: 8 Things To Try Out Tonight

Is your sex life lacking excitement? Read on to learn how to spice things up in the bedroom. (Number 7 is my personal favorite)

5 min read
sex moves to surprise your man Sex

5 Naughty Sex Moves To Surprise Your Man

Having the same sex with your man over and over? We covered 5 unique sex moves to surprise your man and leave him surprised and begging for more.

5 min read
should you stop texting him to get his attention Dating

Should You Stop Texting Him To Get His Attention?

You send him a message but a few moments later you get that sinking feeling. A repeat of last time? Should you stop texting him to get his attention?

4 min read
turn offs for guys Dating

7 Surprising Turn Offs For Guys You Want To Avoid

Let’s be honest, dating is hard. It's even harder when you don't know turn offs for guys. Luckily we have you covered. read on to find out the big ones.

4 min read
does absence make the heart grow fonder Long Distance

Does Absence Make The Heart Grow Fonder?

Does absence really make the heart grow fonder? This is an age old question, and I'll do my best to answer it in this article. Learn more here.

4 min read
keep a man interested Understanding Men

How To Keep A Guy Interested After Sleeping With Him

So you’ve slept together. and it was good, but you’re starting to worry. Relax, here is how to keep a guy interested after sleeping with him.

9 min read
how to make a player fall in love with you Understanding Men

How To Make A Player Fall In Love With You

It's only natural to fall in love with a player. But how do you really get a player to fall for you? Click here to discover our top tips.

10 min read
how to make him obsessed with you Understanding Men

How To Make Him Obsessed With You

It's tough even getting a man's attention, even tougher learning how to make him obsessed with you. Luckily I've got you covered.

4 min read
Marriage

Why Is My Husband Ignoring Me And What Can I Do About It?

Wondering why is your husband ignoring you? There could be a few reasons. Don't worry, Click here to know the reasons why is he ignoring you.

4 min read
questions to ask a guy Dating

Questions to Ask Your Partner That Are Worth Asking

Not 200 questions. About 40 that actually tell you something, sorted by how well you know him, plus the research on why taking turns matters more than the questions.

5 min read
scared to commit Understanding Men

29 Signs He Wants To Commit But Is Scared

There could many reasons to why men fear commitment. We listed for you 29 sure signs he wants to commit but is scared of it. Number 20 will surprise you.

9 min read
signs your husband doesn't love you Marriage

17 Signs Your Husband Doesn’t Love You Anymore

Knowing your husband doesn't care about you anymore can be devastating. But how can you be sure? These are 17 signs that will give you the answer.

7 min read
man attached to a woman Understanding Men

What Makes A Man Emotionally Attached To A Woman?

So what makes a man emotionally attached to a woman? More than you'd guess. we covered 10 unique ways to get any man attached to a woman.

9 min read
what makes a man fall in love Understanding Men

What Makes A Man Fall In Love? 7 Proven Strategies To Use

Wouldn't it be awesome if you had a key to every man's heart? Well, I've got something better. Here's exactly what makes a man fall in love.

7 min read
what men want in a relationship Understanding Men

4 Things Men REALLY Want In A Relationship But Will Never Tell You

What men want in a relationship? That's a good question - and here are 4 answers that you need to hear, but most men will never tell you.

5 min read